What is a Mindful Listener?
Good question!
A mindful listener is one who:
- Processes the “whole” message - not only
the words, but the tone of voice, facial expressions, gestures and
the silences between the words.
- Makes the speaker feel valued and respected
- Is able to sustain concentration and remember
the speaker’s message as accurately as possible several days later
- Listens to him or herself as he or she speaks
– choosing words and non-verbal ways of expression that match as closely
as possible the intended meaning.
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