Online Conversation Tips

by | Jun 10, 2020 | Uncategorized

The COREageous need to be good conversational partners in person and online. Since we are having more online conversations, make note of these suggestions to present your best self:
1) Look straight at the camera, not yourself, when speaking to your conversational partner. Once that camera is on, it’s too late to primp. Check your hair, teeth and makeup before getting online.
2) Be sure your background communicates “professional and successful.” Mark Cuban has his back to walls of solid mahogany. Other experts have their online conversations in their libraries in front of orderly shelves of books. Think of the perception you want to share with the world. Your background speaks volumes about you.
3) Eliminate any sources of noise or other visuals that could interrupt the conversation or serve as a source of distraction.
4) Occasionally, lean in to the camera a few inches to show interest, but not too close. The rule of thumb is to be an arm’s length from your screen most of the time.
5) Keep your hands away from the camera and use gestures sparingly. Your hands will look proportionately huge if they are in front of you and visible to the camera.

Spruce up your online appearances with customers or investors. A little practice with an experienced coach can enhance the way people perceive you. Contact me at Rebecca@MindfulCommunication.com 

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take to improve critical thinking?

You will notice a difference in how you read within a week. Durable change in how you decide takes longer—think two to three months of daily practice. The skill is built the way physical conditioning is: short, consistent reps beat occasional long sessions.

What's the difference between critical thinking and decision-making?

Critical thinking is the quality of the reasoning; decision-making is the act of choosing. You can decide quickly and still decide well—but only if the thinking underneath has been disciplined first. Better critical thinking is what makes fast decisions safe.

Can AI do the critical thinking for me?

AI can summarize an argument, surface counterpoints, and speed up research. It cannot decide what matters to your business, notice when a conclusion is convenient, or own the outcome. As AI takes on more of the analysis, judgment becomes the part that’s distinctly yours—and the part worth training.

What counts as a "substantive" article?

Something that makes an argument rather than reporting a fact: an essay, an analysis piece, a research summary, a strong opinion column. Roughly 1,000 words or more, with a claim you could agree or disagree with. Listicles and news briefs give you nothing to analyze.

Ready to build this into how you actually run your business?

Sharper judgment is one of several executive function skills that compound over time. Explore Core Four executive function coaching to see how focus, connection, and judgment work together—or get in touch to talk about what your team needs.

Rebecca Z. Shafir, M.A., CCC-SLP, is an executive function coach and author of The Zen of Listening: Mindful Communication in the Age of Distraction. She works with entrepreneurs and professionals to strengthen the human skills that become increasingly important as AI takes on more of our cognitive work.

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Who is Rebecca Shafir? Speech/language pathologist, author, voice and executive function coach

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