Self-help, Coaching or Therapy?

by | Jul 18, 2021 | Uncategorized

Emotional self-regulation is an essential core skill for a founder. When challenges mount up, vulnerabilities are unveiled that could sabotage your ability to make good decisions, listen mindfully and get back on track.

For the sake of your startup, know the options for  managing your emotions. Here are three routes to consider:

Feeling stressed, tired and aggravated a lot more lately? Is this is a problem you can solve yourself?  Are you taking time to relax and re-center yourself? Are you getting good quality sleep and exercise? Can you identify the root of your distress and make the needed adjustments?

Perhaps your anxiety and low mood are due to weaknesses in your executive functioning, communication or leadership skills?  Coaching can help. However, a good coach knows when a client needs more than coaching and will direct you to more appropriate services.

Emotional problems stemming from chronic depression, mood swings, insomnia, trauma and dysfunctional relationships are best treated with therapy with or without medication. If you neglect self-care or are drawn to addictive behaviors, these are also good reasons to seek a psychologist or mental health professional as soon as possible.

For more information on CoreCoaching, contact me at Rebecca@MindfulCommunication.com. For a qualified psychotherapist, check out the therapy directory at www.PsychologyToday.com.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does it take to improve critical thinking?

You will notice a difference in how you read within a week. Durable change in how you decide takes longer—think two to three months of daily practice. The skill is built the way physical conditioning is: short, consistent reps beat occasional long sessions.

What's the difference between critical thinking and decision-making?

Critical thinking is the quality of the reasoning; decision-making is the act of choosing. You can decide quickly and still decide well—but only if the thinking underneath has been disciplined first. Better critical thinking is what makes fast decisions safe.

Can AI do the critical thinking for me?

AI can summarize an argument, surface counterpoints, and speed up research. It cannot decide what matters to your business, notice when a conclusion is convenient, or own the outcome. As AI takes on more of the analysis, judgment becomes the part that’s distinctly yours—and the part worth training.

What counts as a "substantive" article?

Something that makes an argument rather than reporting a fact: an essay, an analysis piece, a research summary, a strong opinion column. Roughly 1,000 words or more, with a claim you could agree or disagree with. Listicles and news briefs give you nothing to analyze.

Ready to build this into how you actually run your business?

Sharper judgment is one of several executive function skills that compound over time. Explore Core Four executive function coaching to see how focus, connection, and judgment work together—or get in touch to talk about what your team needs.

Rebecca Z. Shafir, M.A., CCC-SLP, is an executive function coach and author of The Zen of Listening: Mindful Communication in the Age of Distraction. She works with entrepreneurs and professionals to strengthen the human skills that become increasingly important as AI takes on more of our cognitive work.

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